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Don’t Trade A Paycheck For A Pending Offer

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The Boring Career Coach
Dec 28, 2025
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Hiring isn’t just interviews.

It’s a negotiation over risk.

And the easiest way to lose leverage is to accept risk that isn’t yours.

The Hiring Move That Quietly Screws Candidates

Some companies don’t say “we’re shifting risk to you.”

They say things like:

  • “Can you resign now so you can start on time?”

  • “We’ll send the contract later, but you’re good.”

  • “Start Monday, paperwork will catch up.”

  • “We might adjust the level later, but take it for now.”

  • “Relocate first, then we’ll finalize.”

  • “Turn down other interviews, we’re basically done.”

Different words. Same move.

They want certainty. You get uncertainty.


The Truth Nobody Tells You About “If You Didn’t Lie, You’re Fine”

People think, “If I didn’t lie, I’m safe.”

No.

You can do everything right and still get hit by delays, errors, approvals, freezes, or a sudden “change of plans.”

None of these care that you’re a good person.

They just create one outcome:

You’re exposed when you didn’t need to be.


The One Rule That Prevents 90% Of Hiring Disasters

Don’t give up a guaranteed paycheck for a job that still has conditions.

That’s the line.

And if you learn how to hold it, you’ll stop losing leverage in the most expensive moment of your career.

It’s the same reason the “keep your current seat warm” mindset matters even when it feels uncomfortable. I break it down why in Stop Job Hopping System.


In the paid section below, you get the full playbook: the 10-minute offer checklist, the 4 pressure scripts, damage control if you already resigned, and the one-line “risk price” move that makes them pay for the urgency.

You’ll know exactly what to say, in what order, without sounding difficult.

If you’ve ever been rushed to “move fast,” this is how you stay safe and still get the offer.

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