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Steal This 90-Sec “Failure” Script (It Converts)

Exact 20/80 template + examples, metrics, worksheet.

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The Boring Career Coach
Oct 07, 2025
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TL;DR

  • Spend 20% on the failure, 80% on the fix.

  • Use Failure → Fix (3 changes) → Proof (metric + time).

  • Keep it to 90 seconds (15/60/15).

  • Expect it mid-to-late interview, after rapport and basics.

  • One story, practiced cold. If you’re still not getting interviews, fix the inputs first with these resume prompts that actually get calls.

Interviewers don’t care about your failure. They care about your upgrade.

When You’ll Get This Question

Mid-to-late. Once you’ve covered background and wins, they stress-test your learning loop.

Be ready to pivot from story to systems fast.

After the interview, send a tight follow-up using this thank-you email that actually moves decisions.


What They’re Actually Testing

  • Ownership: Do you own it without excuses?

  • Awareness: Can you spot a bad path early?

  • Improvement: Did you install a better system after?

If #3 is weak, you’re done.


The Framework

A. 20/80 Rule (Memorize This)

20% Failure → 80% Fix.

One clean line on what went wrong + consequence.

Then live in the after: new process, new behavior, repeatable results.

B. The Story Equation

Failure → Fix → Proof

  • Failure: Say it clean. No blame, no weather reports.

  • Fix: Three changes you control.

  • Proof: Results over time, not a lucky bounce.

C. Answer Template (Fill-in-the-Blanks)

“I [failed] on [project], which led to [consequence].

I implemented [change #1], [change #2], [change #3].

Since then, [proof: metric + time span].”

D. Timebox (90 Seconds)

  • 15s: Failure + consequence

  • 60s: The fix (3 concrete changes)

  • 15s: Proof (metric + time span)


Pick the Right Failure

  • Use: missed deadline, over-promised scope, didn’t delegate, ignored early risks.

  • Avoid: ethics issues, blame stories, personal drama, and something very recent in your current role.

  • Timing sweet spot: 1–3 years ago. Recent enough to be real, old enough to show growth.

If the process feels abusive at any point, read this and act accordingly: If They Humiliate You In Hiring, Believe Them.


Red Flags That Kill You

  • “I haven’t failed.” → You don’t stretch.

  • Humble-brags (“I care too much”).

  • Excuses.

  • Rambling setup with no fix.

This isn’t about your past. It’s a learning-loop audit. Show the loop. Get the offer.


Get the full playbook—copy/paste scripts, role-based examples, a metrics bank, follow-up templates, and a 10-minute worksheet. Nail a clean 90-second failure story on command. Turn interviews into offers.

Upgrade your chances — one proven system you’ll reuse all year.


🔐Scripts, Drills, Metrics, and Rubrics

Priority Guide (optional — start here if 11 sections feels heavy):

  • Start here: Sections 1, 2, 5 (scripts, examples, worksheet)

  • Level up: Sections 3, 7, 8 (metrics, follow-ups, traps)

  • Master it: Sections 9, 10, 11 (rubric, closers, drill)


1. Plug-and-Play Scripts (pick one):

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